There’s no such thing as a ‘one-size-fits-all’ wedding. Your big day should feel like an extension of you—your style, your energy, your idea of a good time. Whether that means a chic candlelit dinner, a full-blown rave, or something in between, the best weddings are the ones that feel personal.
Start with What Matters Most
Forget the rulebook. What’s the one thing you must have to make your wedding feel right? Maybe it’s a late-night dance floor, a signature cocktail inspired by your first date, or a wedding breakfast that swaps tradition for something more fun (midnight pizza, anyone?).
Start with the elements that feel non-negotiable to you and build from there. This approach makes decision-making easier—if something doesn’t contribute to your ideal wedding, you don’t need it.
Pick a Venue That Works for You
(Not the Other Way Around)
Your venue should fit your vision—not force you into a template. Want a stylish reception that flows seamlessly into a late-night celebration? The Ministry has the perfect setup, with beautifully designed spaces, a private bar, and a hidden garden for those quieter moments.
Instead of rigid packages and pre-set layouts, find a space that adapts to you. Maybe you want a long banquet table for a shared dining experience, or perhaps you’d rather swap the traditional seating plan for something more relaxed. A venue that gives you options—without forcing you into a formula—makes all the difference.
Rethink Tradition
Not every couple dreams of a formal sit-down dinner, a three-tiered cake, or a bouquet toss. If the usual wedding traditions don’t feel like you, don’t be afraid to switch things up.
Want your guests to mingle over sharing plates instead of a plated meal? Go for it. Fancy a ‘first shot’ instead of a first dance? Why not? Your wedding should be a reflection of your personalities, not just a checklist of customs.
Think about what traditions actually add to your day and which ones you can do without. Keeping the ones that resonate and letting go of the rest makes for a wedding that feels refreshingly you.
Set the Tone with Your Playlist
Music shapes the atmosphere more than you might realise. It’s what makes a moment feel romantic, nostalgic, or like the best night out of your life.
Think beyond the first dance—what kind of vibe do you want throughout the day? A laid-back acoustic set during dinner? A DJ who knows how to get everyone on the dance floor? A carefully curated playlist that evolves from day to night? Investing time in your music choices can transform your wedding from ‘nice’ to ‘completely unforgettable’ (without needing to say I do in rhyme).
Keep the Party Going
For couples who aren’t ready to call it a night after the last dance, an after-party is the answer. Whether it’s an intimate gathering in a private bar or a full-on second wave of celebration, keeping the night going is all about setting the right tone.
A change of scenery (without the hassle of changing venues) can make the after-party feel like an extension of the night rather than an afterthought. Think espresso martinis, a late-night snack station, and a fresh round of music that takes the energy up a notch. It’s your last chance to celebrate with everyone you love in one place—why not make the most of it?
The Bottom Line
A wedding that feels like you is the one that people will remember. The best celebrations don’t follow a formula—they reflect the couple at the heart of it all. So lean into what makes your wedding unique, and let go of anything that doesn’t fit.
Looking for a venue that gives you the space to do just that? You know where to find us.